The blog
Local dating advice, first date ideas and the occasional bit of Essex nonsense.
Written by Andy
Founder and writer
Every post on the blog is written by Andy, who founded Go Essex Dating. Expect local, practical advice for meeting people in Essex...from first date ideas to staying safe when you meet someone new.

Dating when you have grown up children
The children have flown the nest and you're ready to meet someone. Here's how to handle the family side with kindness and confidence.
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Dating again after divorce or losing a partner
There's no right time and no rulebook. A gentle guide to getting back out there when you feel ready.
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Cosy winter date ideas in Essex
The seafronts are quiet and the fires are lit. Winter is a lovely time to meet someone in Essex.
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How to write a dating profile that gets replies
A few honest lines and the right photos do more than a clever one-liner. Here's how to make your profile work for you.
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First date ideas in Essex that beat a drink in the pub
From Southend Pier to Constable Country and Colchester Castle: twelve easy, local first dates.
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Dating safely: a practical guide to meeting someone from online
Simple habits that make meeting someone new safer, from the first message to the first date.
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Dating in your 50s, 60s and beyond in Essex
Getting back out there later in life? You're in very good company here.
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Fancy something lighter? Brush up on your Essex words and sayings.